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Published Date: 22 August 2007
INFERTILITY Network UK is a national charity and the largest organisation in the UK offering support and advice for those experiencing fertility problems.
One of our goals is to help couples make informed decisions throughout the process. Another is to provide emotional support. Whatever help is needed, we will endeavour to provide it and show the way forward.

Infertility is a very real illness and
one which can affect every part of daily living. It has a huge impact on the very quality of life for those who suffer from it. The emotional and psychological impact is huge and Infertility Network UK works continuously to raise awareness of all issues surrounding infertility and its devastating effects.

There is a desperate need for equality of state-funded fertility treatment to be made readily available by health providers and recognition of infertility to be seen as a real health need which deserves treatment. Unfortunately, that is not always the case - there are different levels of service that are far from consistent throughout the UK.

The National Infertility Awareness Campaign, which is led by Infertility Network UK and supported by other organisations, including The British Fertility Society and The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, has worked tirelessly for that equality.

Infertility Network regional staff work with parliamentarians, clinicians, support groups, individual patients and many other interested parties to raise and maintain awareness of all the issues, and act as patient advocates.

As the new regional organiser for Scotland, an essential part of my role will be to visit clinics throughout Scotland, liaise with staff on patient issues and represent their views.

Another aspect of my role is to provide moral support and advice for existing Infertility Network UK support groups and members. I also co-ordinate activities within the region by meeting with individuals, local groups, relevant agencies, hospitals and clinics.

Support groups can be of enormous benefit to infertility sufferers. They are a vital source of emotional support, where couples can meet others in a similar situation, share experiences, gain information and encourage one another.

Just to know that help and support is there is reassuring in what sometimes feels like a very long and lonely road. The emotional impact of infertility affects not only those who suffer from it, but also friends and relatives who see and share the difficulties. This is why we also invite them to contact Infertility Network for advice and support.

As an organisation, we continue to give the message that infertility is not just a lifestyle issue but an illness which causes a great deal of distress and should never be underestimated.

We would like to expand our network of support groups in Edinburgh and the Lothians and if anyone would like to find out more, then please give me a call on 01292-471 670 or e-mail karenbray@infertilitynetworkuk.com

Karen Bray was appointed as the regional organiser for Scotland of Infertility Network UK earlier this month.



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  • Last Updated: 22 August 2007 8:31 AM
  • Source: Edinburgh Evening News
  • Location: Edinburgh
  • Related Topics: IVF treatment
 
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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 22/08/2007 13:04:19

Its good to see any help for couples affected by infertility, INFERTILITY Network UK has been of good support for my wife and I, and to have local support will be even better.
Its coming on 10years for us now, trying for-a-baby and how it affects my wife, I will never know the really deep side, I call it THE-SILENT-TEARS, because that is what it is.
Its funny though, how never in my life, I thought it would affect me as-well, as a Man, but it does and that's after me having two grown-up Girls with my ex.
Unless you've been there, I dont think anyone can understand the hurt infertility brings to couples wanting, the most natural event for most couples, but not for all.
Its ironic, when not wanting a Baby and you get Pregnant the first time, from say a 'QUICKY' and the ones that would want to bring a Child into the World with Love and care, just cant get Prgnant.

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tomias,

southsider 22/08/2007 18:31:50

And such money diverted to reall illnesses- ADOPT

3

Territimmons,

Canada 22/08/2007 19:43:57

I am sorry but it sickens me the way that we throw away perfectly healthy babies every day (through tax payer funded abortion) and then turn around and bend over backwards for infertile couples to conceive. Something about this bothers me to the core. I guess we truly live in a throw away society. (I do not mean any offence to the people who try concieve through IVF).

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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 22/08/2007 22:17:16

#2, Thanks, as for the other comments, I take it you are Men who don't understand a Maternal Instinct and will never understand even with reason that a Woman has a Right to have her own Child and adopting is NOT the same.
Yes you can adopt a Child, but its never the same, for a Woman as to bond with her Baby from conception-to-birth.
We could all take the attitude, 'lets wait till we are 39 then buy one from tesco's adoption agency'
My wife is 27 and Don't tell her she has NO-RIGHT to be given a little help, for what her Body is meant to do, she is Human like the rest off us, although by judging some comments, some are just materialistic, or so far away from nature, they forget why they are on this Planet!
To bring-a-wanted Baby into this World is a Woman's Natural Instinct, its why she is made the way she is and if its not working or needs a little help, like any ailment, as Humans we should help!

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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 22/08/2007 22:30:30

And by Judging by the lack of comments on this article, we are the only-ones with fertility issues in Scotland, so any help we could be given, would not be even missed!

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Suzi B,

23/08/2007 00:03:34

#6 Charles, all the other sub-fertile couples are off trying to make babies ;-}
I do hope that #3's comment was merely ill-though out. 'Just adopt'-as if Scotland is coming down with babies for adoption. I don't know the figures off- hand, but I'm willing to bet that there are a lot less babies than prospective adoptive parents. And as you say, Charles, why shouldn't people be given access to the technology and resources we have available in order to conceive a child of their own. There are a lot less worthy people clogging up the health system with preventable diseases. My personal favourite unworthy cause are the asthmatic smokers who gobble up more than their fair share of the health pie each year.

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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 23/08/2007 00:42:48

Suzi Hi, dont think my Suzs is neglected in the baby making dept, maybe I just got it wrong what you are trying to say.
Week-Days are crap for BD (making-babies, Baby-Dancing) as we both work and it was not the same for us when we were told 'nows-the-time' go home BD for make-a-Baby, from the little help we had from our NHS ERI, it felt like I was a preforming-monkey, for me :-D
We were told after 3years of assisted IVF, that did not work, we would have to wait a further 3years to get seen again and have actual IVF treatment, which you only get 3 trys and then NO-MORE.
But we now both have the attitude while we wait one more year (a total off 6years) if its meant-its-meant, the love-making-dept is now so much better for both of us.
I know I am on here real late, but the latter is always well catered for and Suzs is an early-bedder, hence me up on here, dont worry though, she gets loads off cuddles when I join her!
And prob you saw my MAD-RANT on the smoke free pubs issue, but thats 'just-me' as usual, had asthma when a child but not now.
I know you aint getting at me, but honest, Suzanne is given the best tender loving care, that she needs, I am only glad that it was me that she met, many years ago and not someone that couldent care about Womans problems, in some ways I think Suzanne thinks the same.
Anyhow its late now, I got to go for 'cuddle-time' :-)

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Suzi B,

23/08/2007 01:26:13

#8 Charles. Oh God, I hope you didn't think I was having a go!! I wouldn't have thought for a second you weren't taking your baby-making duties seriously! It was because you said that judging by the lack of comments you were the only ones with fertility issues and I was putting forward my suspicion about where they all were, if they are not reading the Scotsman tonight! I know that in reality, the whole baby making on demand thing is very stressful and in reality it ends up not being the fun you thought endless sex might be!! My sister tried for 7 years for a baby, so I went though all the highs and lows with her.
Suzanne is still young, so you really do have the future ahead of you-just try to keep the faith.

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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 23/08/2007 06:21:17

#9 Suzi, no not at-all thought you were having 'a-go'
Gosh it took your sister a while to conceive, just shows, its not that easy for some to make-a-baby.

10

Feemcgee,

Edinburgh 23/08/2007 09:05:12

Fertility problems affect more people than we think, I had a baby almost two years ago and out of my new mummy friends, who are all aged in their early 30s, a big chunk had problems conceiving. Two friends can't conceive naturally and are having IVF - one is paying for it. They have been told that once they have one baby through IVF, they have been blessed with one child, so fall down the list of people waiting for their turn. Waiting lists can take a couple of years. I agree with adoption, and it breaks my heart to think of these needy children. But being pregnant and giving birth is so special, it's not a right of course, but holding that baby as soon as she is born and being able to breastfeed is an extremely special experience. Of course we should help women to experience this.

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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 23/08/2007 23:21:07

It really has 'shocked-me' no-one has come on to comment, that are having problems to conceive.
Suzi B, may have a point, don't have time, because to busy trying to make-a-Baby, but quite honest I think, maybe to embarrassed to talk!
Can I say this? Don't hide in the 'SILENT-TEARS' scenario, talking works wonders and maybe the wonder of you having that longed-for-Baby, hence this topic matter and why Karen Bray is now here to help you.
A Baby is more important to me, than not talking about this subject, so my embarrassment about my SPERM issues or my wife's PCOS, goes 'out-the-window'
GOOD GOD! maybe that's where the Sperm went as-well! :-D


 

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